My Collaboration with “ I Am Who I Am Apparel”

Hey beauts, welcome to my channel, I am so glad you chose to pop in and say hi! I hope you beauts have been doing well. I have been busy blogging lately and have been babysitting my mom’s dog for the week while they are on vacation for March break! Lucky Bum’s! I don’t mind being with baby winnie though, we are bonding and having a great time together! I have recently been collaborating with a clothing brand called, “I am who I am Apparel”, and let me just say this, they are a newer company but are amazing so far and their clothing is inspirational as well. As you beauts know I am all about positive vibes and love anything that has to do with inspiration and empowering vibes. I am who I am is a Canadian Clothing company that stands for showing the world who you are; quirks, flaws, and all! I absolutely love this! Also, they emphasize the quote, “be proud of everything you are”. On their Instagram page, I love how it says in their bio, “peace and self-love”. I am all about self-love, practising self-love and expressing it as much as possible.  I was so ecstatic when the company agreed to collaborate with me on a blog post, I love working with different companies and was thrilled to see this was a Canadian company which was awesome. There are so many different t shirts and hoodies to choose from which was great! I chose two specific t-shirts that caught my eye right away. The first is called the  “Probably Late Tee”, which retails in store for $22.00. I got my shirt in the royal blue colour which was absolutely stunning. I feel like you can pair these shirts with a lot of different outfits which is great. I simply paired mine with a pair of ripped jeans, combat boots, and a baseball hat.

(Clearly couldn’t just decide on one picture because I liked them all as you can tell !) I just absolutely love and adore this shirt! It completely suits me because I am usually always late to things, I like to take my sweet ass time getting ready!

The next shirt that I received in the mail is absolutely adorable as well and I am in love! It suits me to a T. This shirt is called the , “Seriously Sassy Tee”, and it retails in store for $22.00. I love this shirt as well I think it is absolutely adorable and looks so cute on. I got mine in the colour black and it literally goes with anything which I love! I do feel extremely sassy in this t shirt which is awesome. Of course had to wear this with my sunnies!

My new position as a Mental Health Blogger for Chase and Hunter!

Hey my beauts, I hope you are all doing well and fabulous! Happy Saturday! I can’t believe it’s the weekend already, that literally flew by! I am so excited, I had Thursday and Friday both off which was awesome, so extra long weekend for me! As you beauts know, I am a nanny and have been for a couple years now. My last day was on Wednesday, so it was a bittersweet day. I am excited to see what is in store for the near future, but I am going to miss my baby girl dearly, she was one year old… too precious! So back to business, I have been writing blogs like crazy… literally blogs coming out of my asshole… no joke. But hey! Honestly, I absolutely love writing and coming up with posts for you guys so that doesn’t bother me one bit! I have been working on a project for about a couple weeks now and I am finally excited to share it with you beauts! I have been given the opportunity to work with a brand dedicated to sharing student’s experiences in college and university. Not only does this brand sound absolutely amazing already… right? I have had so many memories and whatnot that I experienced in university, so I adore their website so much and what they have to offer.  I found “Chase and Hunter” one day while exploring Instagram and really loved their page. It was so down to earth, loved reading about student’s experiences in both college and university, and absolutely adored the clothing line. If you beauts know me I am all about cropped hoodies. 100%. I think they are absolutely adorable and so stylish. Pairing these with high waisted pants or yoga pants looks unreal and adorable.  So I started following their page on Instagram and was always intrigued by their stories they post. They are a very interactive brand and include everyone which is amazing. They often do a bunch of polls on their stories seeing what kinds of apparel students love best and what not… love this. You have the option of having a voice and giving your opinion on things which is fantastic. I noticed one day  Chase and Hunter had posted on their story that they were searching for someone to help out with the company, marketing and so forth.  I then sent them a message saying I was very interested in this position, and I got in touch over the phone with the CEO of Chase and Hunter, Jake Karls, super down to earth guy, super friendly, and it was very easy speaking to him which I loved. I ran the idea by him that maybe there could be a section on the website discussing the aspect of Mental Health, as I know a lot of students who are in post-secondary school probably have had some struggles and experiences in regards to Mental Health. He absolutely loved the idea and thought it would be great to talk about mental health on the website. I wanted this to be a safe space where students from all around the world and different schools can come and share their own personal stories with one another, relating, connecting and expressing their emotions and feelings… what they personally went through or have been going through.

I wanted a welcoming, safe platform where students can share, and offer advice and take in new information in regards to mental health. I am so thankful that Chase and Hunter agreed to this idea, and I am pleased to announce I have joined their team and am now taking on the opportunity of being a mental health blogger for the company! I am so thrilled beyond belief that I get to express and share my ideas about something I am so passionate about and absolutely love.  I finally have been given a chance to share my stories with others around the world and for an amazing brand.  I have been gathering numerous articles and stories from student’s who are in post-secondary school or have attended it in the past. To my surprise, a lot of people reached out to me and wanted to share their mental health stories and struggles while in school, which was amazing. I was blown away. I even had a few people who I did not know reach out to me over social media which was unreal, and I was so beyond grateful for this. These stories are going to be shared amongst the Chase and Hunter website for other’s to relate to and connect to.  Mental health should not be kept quiet and remain in the dark. As some of you beauts know I have been struggling with mental illnesses my whole entire life, as early as grade 6. I did not know at the time that I had anxiety but soon later found out within my university years, and let me just say this…. I struggled a lot with it in university. I am grateful that there is now a platform to share and open up my story with others as I am not ashamed one bit. I know a lot of people struggle with mental illness, sometimes not knowing where to turn to, or how to go about it. I have been writing articles and blog posts recently strictly on mental illness and tips and tricks for those who are struggling. These articles will be published on the Chase and Hunter website which is unreal, and there will be a section dedicated to my blog posts on their website. I can not thank Chase and Hunter enough for this incredible and welcoming opportunity for me. I really have no words. I have been working my ass off for you beauts, and can not wait to share my posts with you guys! Currently, Chase and Hunter are going to launch a new website in the near future so I will let you guys know when everything is up and running on the website. Right now, we are just prepping and Jake is busy putting together the website! I am so excited and I know you guys will absolutely love it. I will keep you guys posted when I know further news about the launch of the new website, so stay tuned! One thing that I am looking forward to is sharing my story with you guys. I have mentioned a bit of my channel already about my mental illnesses, but I am excited to share with student’s around the world who I am, and what I am all about. As you beauts know I am an extremely open person, willing to share my story hands down with you guys, but sometimes this is not always an easy thing to do.If you guys are wanting to share a story and have it posted on the Chase and Hunter website, feel free to send me a message through one of my social media sites and I will gladly give you all the details! I want to personally say thank you to everyone who has sent me their story and opened up. It’s not easy and you have a lot of courage by doing so. I want other’s who are struggling to know they are never alone, and that there are always resources out there that are available to students. I am by no means a mental health professional or expert, but I do have a strong passion for mental health and have personally suffered from anxiety for years now. I have written some articles on ways to help ease anxiety before a big presentation, tips on how to wake up in a positive mood, and also how to notice the warning signs on someone who may be struggling. These are a few examples of what is going to be on the Chase and Hunter website and what you beauts have to look forward to.

So I know what you beauts are thinking… you want to hear a bit more about what Chase and Hunter are all about right? The founder of Chase and Hunter, Jake Karls, states, “ as much fun as I had in college (partying and not studying obviously), dorm rooms are pretty bland and always kind of reminded me of the back office of a senior manager at the DMV. WHITE WALLS SUCK, and worse than that, white walls don’t inspire anyone.I quickly realized that hanging a piece of art on my wall changed my headspace and created the good vibes that I wanted for me and my friends. Something as simple as a famous landmark or a quote was able to evoke powerful emotions for me and anyone coming over. Being the founder of Chase & Hunter, a lifestyle brand dedicated to helping millennials grow and become the best version of themselves it was natural for us to develop a line of art that can transform the spaces around you. Wherever you want to be, we have the art that can take you there. We invite you to browse our collection and find a piece that speaks to you and is a representation of where you are going”. 

I absolutely love this. This is one of the reasons why I fell in love with Chase and Hunter. I love working and collaborating with brands that have a powerful message, and my heart was geared towards this brand. I could not be more proud to represent and wear the clothing for this brand, as well as blog for their company. I really hope you guys enjoy my section on mental health that will be on the website, I am really excited and have been working hard each day on this project. I am honoured.  I also have purchased two of their cropped sweaters from their collection, and I am excited to show you guys. I purchased this beautiful and stunning! I purchased, “The cropped hoodie” in the colour grey and let’s just say…..  I am obsessed. I absolutely love how cropped it is, it’s absolutely adorable, completely my style… I am just in love. This retails for $39.00 in store.

“…Chase and Hunter is a mix between comfy and streetwear”

The other sweater that I purchased is called, “The classic cropped crewneck“, and I purchased it in the shade Royal Blue. Something about the colour blue has me absolutely hooked and I love it dearly. I think this is such a beautiful and vibrant colour by far, something different than what I am used to having in my wardrobe. Again, love the cropped hoodies, they are stunning on. Super comfortable. There are also so many different colours to choose from this collection as well which is fantastic. This sweater retails for $34.99 in store.

I absolutely love my two new hoodies and have been wearing them so much lately. I highly recommend going to check out the website and purchasing one for yourself! We would love to see you in one and rocking the brand! I hope you guys love the new website, if you have a story you would like to share don’t be afraid to reach out. I want to personally take a minute to thank Chase and Hunter for allowing me to blog for their company, this is an amazing opportunity for me and I am beyond thankful. I can not wait to see what the future has in store for me, and for Chase and Hunter as well! Big things are happening beauts, and I can not thank you enough for your support. Be sure to check out their page on Instagram over at, “chaseandhunter”, come spread some love. Also be sure to check out my other social media sites located on my homepage for more blogs to come in the near future. Take care and much love xo.


My Collaboration with “Gmyle Phone Cases”

Hey there beauts, and welcome to my channel if you are new! My names Alyssa, and I appreciate you beautiful souls stopping by. I have been super busy lately with a new blogging opportunity that came my way recently! I will be discussing this more in detail when it comes to my next blog post down the road so stay tuned! I am still doing collaborations with companies which I absolutely love, and I know you beauts look forward to seeing which company I am going to work with next! I came across an amazing company on Instagram called “Gmyle” that sells accessories and gadgets. I absolutely loved their page it completely caught my eye. I was extremely interested in the phone cases as I absolutely am hooked on cool and intriguing phone cases lately! Their brand is proud to design good gadgets to make your life easier. The company is dedicated to enhancing your style and life with their cases, covers, gadgets and so forth. While browsing and looking on their website, there is so much to offer and look at! Straight away I went to the phone cases for my iPhone 7 and did my browsing. I then reached out to the company asking if they were interested in a collaboration.  They were more than happy to do a collaboration with me and send me a phone case which was awesome! Let the browsing begin! I wanted something unique and different, something I didn’t have before. I came across this one phone case which I absolutely loved and it was called, “Snap Case Dual (Bones Pattern) for Apple iPhone 7/8″, in my case my iPhone 7.  There were about 3-4 different bones patterns to choose from and I really liked this one skull with flowers on the head. I do not own anything like this before, and wanted something unique and different, with a “badass” kind of vibe to it!

I absolutely love the look of this case, it is see-through which I love, and I love the design on the cover as well! If you are wanting to be stylish, and have a bad ass vibe, I highly recommend checking out this case for your phone! This retails for $19.98 in store.  So this was the case that I picked out for my phone, thank you so much Gmyle for the lovely case! I also noticed on the website there are so many other categories of cases to choose from and there are even beautiful colours for your Macbooks if you have one! (aka, I need to purchase one for myself one day for sure).

Gmyle was also super generous and sent me another phone case as a surprise gift which was amazing of them. I received this beautiful marble design phone case which I had my eye on as well. It’s like they knew exactly what I would like and want! Amazing!  This case is called, “Snap Case Light (Marble Pattern) for iPhone 7″ which retails for $19.98 in store.  I think this case looks super chic and is super stylish as well. It is hard to choose which case I love the most because I absolutely adore both cases!

I want to take the time to personally thank Gmyle for allowing me to collaborate and work with their company, you beauts are amazing! Come check out their amazing collection of gadgets, cases and covers… was so hard to choose which one I wanted to model for you guys! Be sure to come spread some love on their page as well at “gmyle_us”, and come check out my other social media sites located on my homepage for more blogs to come in the near future! Take care and have a beautiful day, much love xo.


My Personal Tinder/Bumble Horror Stories Part 2

Good morning my beauts, and welcome to my channel where I discuss all my wonderful Tinder and Bumble horror stories for you guys. Honestly, who doesn’t like to fool around on these dating apps? Sometimes, well most of the time I am pretty serious about these apps and I am genuinely looking for someone that has the potential to date. I literally have my list and follow that when seeing what I want in a man. I personally think there is nothing wrong with this whatsoever, and everyone should have some standards when trying to find the right man. So you can usually get a feel for someone when you are figuring them out, what they like and how their personality is. Well honest to god these individuals just set themselves up for failure like in my last blog post on my tinder and bumble experiences.

 I can truly say congrats to these fine man, you are famous and made the cut for my blog post! I can honestly say these are probably some of my favourite conversations by far, and I know you guys got a kick out of my last blog post with my horror stories, so I had to come up with a part two for you beauts. So sit back, probably grab an alcoholic drink, I am personally drinking a rum and coke while typing this, and enjoy these beauties.

This one is probably one of my favourites, I met this guy through Tinder and we started chatting one evening. He seemed pretty chill and down to earth, did not seem creepy whatsoever. So we got chatting and then he randomly asks me, “do you ever horseback ride?“, and I personally thought nothing of this whatsoever, I legit thought that he wanted to be romantic and go horseback riding… boy was I wrong.  So me being stupid I’m like, “I haven’t gone in forever!” and so on. It’s funny because I was literally reading this out loud to my mom, I thought he was being all cute and romantic because no guy has ever asked me that before, (mom deff called what was going to happen next, I was too oblivious). When he responded with the horse costume I almost spit out my rum and coke everywhere, literally, like full blown. I could not believe that he texted that to me, it was absolutely hilarious and completely random as hell. Kudos to you my dear friend, you sure know how to be romantic.  Can we ride away into the sunset together?

This next one, you can tell I was starting to get annoyed as everyone on the site was either perverted or drove me nuts. I for sure got a kick out of it though. So I started chatting with this good looking guy and I felt like we were hitting it off okay! Then he starts talking about how sore his neck is, and I am completely ignoring the obvious, like buddy I personally don’t care. Then he has the balls to ask if I will “volunteer”, (VOLUNTEER?!, cause that sounds like a shit ton of fun) to massage it. My response? “Do I look like your slave”?“. Needless to say, he was unmatched right away. Or I would’ve been unmatched but beat him to it.

This next one I again was joking around and made a common mistake on purpose that some girls make, this is moving way too fast. Sure I have a list that I look for in a guy, and it’s just simple things such as if you are caring, sensitive and so forth, usually never go this far when it comes to expectations but I was extremely curious as to what he would say! I literally laughed out loud at his reply, and let him know after I was joking around. But girls, don’t move too fast or you will scare the hell outta the guy and he will dip forever, trust me.

The next guy that I was talking to I found on bumble and he was gorgeous, we hit it off pretty good and actually hung out at his place the one day. So everything was going well and what not, then out of nowhere he was asking about my dating life which is completely fine I am an open person and don’t mind sharing. So he wanted to see some pictures of the guys so I showed him and then he got all quiet about one guy in particular. I asked if maybe he knew the guy or something and he said his friend has been seeing him for two months now, (aka, I just went on a date with this guy about a month ago…. awkward). Apparently, he had keys to this girl’s apartment and everything I couldn’t believe what a player he was. I obviously had no connection with this guy whatsoever but I just felt bad for the other girl he was playing, I can’t stand guys like that, have some respect for women. That guy is long gone and I pray he changes his ways or he’s going to get nowhere in life.

So as you can see I have had my fair share of keepers, and I hope you beauts enjoyed this part 2 of these mini-series. I find these stories absolutely hilarious and I hope you guys did too. Again congrats to the individuals who made the cut, and goodluck! Be sure to follow my other social media accounts located on my homepage for more blogs in the near future. Take care and much love xo.


My Collaboration with “Kroma” Phone Cases !

Good morning my beauts, and welcome to my channel if you are new! My names Alyssa and I have been blogging for several years now, it’s my favourite hobby by far. I absolutely love doing collaborations with companies and meeting new people on Instagram and all over the world. I have been busy working away as a nanny and have been focusing on new collaborations with different companies. I recently came across a company on Instagram which offered new items then I am used to collaborating with. This company specializes in lifestyle accessories for women, and little pick me ups for the everyday. The company offered changeable backplates for your phone which is super easy to change for any occasion.  Not going to lie, I had to ask Joanne, a lady who I spoke from the Company, about the cases and how they worked. I only ever used normal phone cases and was not used to a changeable backing and a frame, but once I received the cases in the mail, they were super easy to work with and change as well for any occasion.  The company who I reached out to is called, “Kroma“, and Joanne was a pleasure to speak to and work with. She was super down to earth, and very friendly as well. At Kroma, they celebrate diversity, and they also encourage everyone to embrace their own definition of beauty, style and fashion which is amazing, I absolutely love this. At Kroma, there are core values that are represented, these values include:

Diversity– Allow for self-expression and embrace the inclusion of different types of people.

Empowerment– Empower yourself and give strength to others.

Creativity  Keep an open mind and use our imagination to create innovative designs and products.

Sustainability Consider the environment, waste generated and human health.

Want to know a fun fact about KromaCases? They are baby, toddler and kid proof! These phone cases can withstand the everyday drops, smashes and knocks by children. I absolutely love this considering I am a nanny and I am always around children especially a 10-month-old baby girl who enjoys throwing my phone around when she gets the chance, and placing my phone in her mouth…. yummy! But Kroma didn’t stop there, the phone cases meet FDA food-grade standards and they are completely free of Bisphenol F (BPF) and phthalates.  Kroma phone cases passed the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA) safety test for food contact. As well as the European Union’s ROHS guideline, Apple’s Regulated Substances Specification, and California’s Proposition 65 Standards. Also, SGS tests were involved to ensure that Kroma cases are 100% free of chemicals and metal potentially toxic to humans, such as BPA, BPS, BPF, phthalates, led an mercury.

Now, I know what you beauts are thinking, what the heck is BPA, because honestly, I had no idea. BPA is a chemical that is found in many different plastic products and it causes many different harmful effects on humans such as on the brain, and behaviour of fetuses, infants and children. So this is honestly something that I had no idea about and would’ve never known, but using Kroma cases makes me feel much better about everything and knowing it’s not harming me or people who come into contact with my phone.

Something else that I found really neat about the Kroma phone cases is that they are powered by Rhinoshield which is known for providing maximum impact protection with a minimalist footprint, this is amazing. I don’t know about you beauts but I am known for dropping my phone all the time, so these cases are so ideal for me. I absolutely love mine. The material for the phone cases is super lightweight and super thin which is awesome.

Cleaning your Kroma Case

It is always such a pain trying to clean your phone case, and not get it dirty with greasy hands and what not. Thank goodness it is super easy to clean your Kroma phone case! First, you simply are going to clean your frame. Simply use a light alcohol based cleaner not too long after the staining occurs. However, avoid using the alcohol-based solvents too often as this could over time degrade the coating.

Next, you are going to clean your backplates, which can be easily cleaned with water. Try not to use any alcohol based solvents on the backplates when cleaning. That’s it. How easy is that! I love it. Also if you go to their website, you can see and read different reviews from individuals who have purchased these cases, which is great.

Receiving the cases in the mail

I was so excited to receive my 3 phone cases and frame in the mail from Kroma! It honestly did not take long at all, and I absolutely love all the styles that I chose. If you beauts now me well enough I absolutely love my bows and ribbon designs.  There were so many beautiful and gorgeous designs to chose from on their website such as different classic prints floral textures, folk flavors, and ribbons and bows.  You get to chose what type of phone you have and the design you wish to purchase. The first design that I chose is called, “Eighty-Eight” which reminds me of a corset for your phone, absolutely adorable. You also get to choose what colour frame you want for your phone as well. I went with classic black for all of my backplates. This retails for, $40.00 with the frame included.

( so adorable, I can’t even deal)

The other case that I received from Kroma was this gorgeous bow case, which is honestly my favourite out of the bunch.  I love the two slouchy bows, I currently have this one on my phone at the moment and I am just loving it.  Again, I chose the black frame, and this retails for $40.00.  Just look how adorable this is. This one is called, “Sylphina Angel”.

The last one I have to show you beauts reminds me of the Spring which I adore. I love happy and cheerful cases, they literally brighten up your day, especially on Mondays that’s for sure! This case is called the ” Tulle”, and I think it is absolutely stunning. There were so many floral designs to chose from which was great, but this one stood out to me the most. Again this retails for $40.00 including the backplate and frame. If you just want the backplate that retails for $15.00.

(so happy and cheery and colourful, I absolutely love it)

I want to personally take the time to thank Kroma for allowing me to collaborate with their company and work with them, I absolutely am in love with my phone cases and can honestly say these are the most stylish cases I have ever owned for my phone. It was a pleasure working with your company, you guys are wonderful people, and I highly recommend checking out their Instagram page over at “getkroma”, come spread some love over there! Literally, you will spend like an hour like I did creeping all the different designs for phone cases, there was a crap ton and I loved every second of it.  Also be sure to head on over to my homepage and follow my other social media accounts for more blog posts to come in the near future.


My Personal Tinder/Bumble Horror Stories

We’ve all been there, well most of us anyways, have been on some sort of dating site in the past. I recently have been single now for about maybe more than like 7 months or 8 months, to be honest, I completely forget, but it’s been a little while now. I have to say going on these dating sites has really opened my eyes, both in a good and bad way. Don’t get me wrong, I have met some really nice people on these sites for sure, some really down to earth and friendly guys, who are serious about finding relationships. But if I had written a blog post about all the wonderful men I have met, then well… it wouldn’t be too interesting and I would have left out all the weird, freaky and gross online dating stories for you beauts.  So a little bit of background information, I have been on two dating sites for the past couple of months now. I have been on Tinder, which everyone knows what the hell it is, and secondly, I have been on Bumble which is a newer site to me that I have just recently been on. My friend recommended me to try out this site and give it a go. The only difference about this site is the girl has to speak to the guy first when they match. This really didn’t bother me that much, I am used to usually speaking first to the guy, that is no biggie. So I decided to give these two sites a go. I can honestly say I have been on a handful of dates, and I think when you are single it’s good to get out there and see what you want in a guy, I find nothing wrong with that whatsoever.   For the purpose of this blog, I am of course going to leave names out of this, for respect and confidentiality ( I am not that mean of a person).   So shall we get started with some of my horror stories when it comes to Tinder and Bumble experiences that I have had?

First, I had gone on a date with this guy that I started talking to on bumble. He seemed like a really funny guy, and if you have a good sense of humour that usually attracts me a bunch. This guy seemed super nice and down to earth as well, so we have been talking for a bit now and finally decided to go on a date.  When we were trying to make the plans, I go a bit of a red flag because he suggested we hang out on a Friday night and just relax and stay in. If you beauts know me, I like to be wined and dined that’s for sure. Like this is your first impression and you wanted to just stay in on the beginning of the weekend and chat? ( I was not down for this). So me being bold, I decided to speak up and suggest going for a drink ( buddy… it’s a Friday night, I am only young once). So he agreed, and he came and picked me up and we were on our way to a pub to sit down and have a drink. So everything was going good, I decided to be a badass and order a double rum and coke, just because it was Friday. We were chatting away, but I knew right away that there was a no connection whatsoever, but I was trying to enjoy myself. So about halfway through he randomly stops talking. I thought maybe he just was nervous so I gave him the benefit of the doubt and let him gather his thoughts for a few minutes because sometimes I run out of things to talk about sometimes. After about 5 minutes went by I knew something was up and things started getting really awkward. It literally looked like we were just sipping on drinks and looking around (just picture it now, super awkward).  SO the waitress is coming by constantly, and now I am starting to pound back the double rum and cokes ( usually like to keep it classy on dates, but at this point, I needed to be drunk because it was painful). I am not one to watch sports that often by the way, and it got so awkward I started to watch basketball on the televisions at the bar. He finally perked up and actually asked, “So you really like basketball eh?“. I was trying so hard not to laugh, and I was literally thinking, “oh my goodness please take me home“. Finally, after about 2 hours, I finally said, “well did you want to head out?!”, and he states, “I mean if you want to we can?”, I am like, “okay, let’s do this”.  Overall he was a nice guy and everything but like talk to me, I don’t bite! Let’s just say most awkward date I have been on ever.

The next Bumble story I have for you guys is about my personal “stalker” to say the least. This guy is a keeper.  So I matched with him on Bumble a while back, a good looking guy full of tats and had a nose piercing (something about nose piercings on a guy get’s me going).  So we had literally matched around 8 pm at night one night, and that same night he asked me to hang out. Usually,  I do not hang out with someone on the same night but I literally had nothing I was doing so I thought, “hey why the hell not?“. So keep this in mind, we literally had no set time we were going to meet at, I told him I lived in Hamilton and he was from another city. I did not mention my address yet, but he was going to come and pick me up. So I had mentioned that I needed to get ready still but I would message him when I am done. So I finally finished getting ready and he proceeds to say to me, “make sure you wear something slutty!”, with a happy face. I could not believe this guy, I literally called him out and replied, ” you do know you are not getting anything tonight right”? He then states, ” well you never know what could happen“. I was so furious and that was so disrespectful to say to a girl, like come on man. So I then blocked and deleted his number because clearly this guy only had one thing on his mind and that was it. I felt like I did not need to give him any explanation as to why I did that cause well… he was a pig to say the least.  Two hours went by and I randomly start getting about 4 calls from this random number, and texts from it. I was literally thinking, “ what the f***?!“.  I start reading the messages and it was the guy who I was supposed to meet up with! He was literally reaming me a new one saying how I stood him up, how he drove all the way to Hamilton to come see me, and that I wouldn’t answer the phone (keep in mind this guy has no idea where I live okay), and he was so ticked at me, and could not believe how disrespectful I was. I was blown away. How disrespectful I was?!Are you kidding me!? I was so thrown off, I blocked and deleted that number as well. A few days pass now and I get a message on Instagram from this random account, keep in mind he did not have any social media accounts whatsoever. This guy, that same stalker guy, makes an Instagram account to message me on there and start reaming me out on there now! This guy has balls I tell you. I could not believe it. He was SO MAD beauts, and I could not emphasize that enough. So doing what I do best, I blocked and deleted him on there as well. I never gave this guy the satisfaction he wanted and replied to him, I just deleted him out of my life.  SO that was my stalker story, this guy was a little too intense for my liking, but hey… you brought this upon yourself bud.

These next few stories are a little bit shorter in length but they are ones that I had to include for sure. I have had some real keepers on these sites, some are just like literally, “what the f***”, so be prepared! This next one, I was chatting with a guy on Bumble, and he seemed again friendly, good-looking, maybe looked a little bit cocky but I thought I would see where it went. So he was from another city and wanted to hang out, so we were deciding on what to do when we hung out. He wanted to keep it simple and come over with a bottle of wine ( we all know what he is thinking), I like to go out in public to go out for dinner or grab some drinks. He then proceeds to say this beauty of a line, ” so when are we banging out, I mean * hanging out”, with a winky face. Bye Felicia. You can go “bang out” somewhere else, LMFAO. I was so disgusted I actually burst out laughing. Does this guy really get anywhere with these cheesy pickup lines? So that was banging out boy, and I still can’t believe how forward guys can be on these sites, but I mean,  it is Tinder and Bumble we are talking about here. It just frustrates me because maybe some girls, like myself, are actually looking to meet someone to potentially be in a relationship with them.

This next story always makes me laugh and I swear to god I felt so dumb for even swiping right for this guy. So I found this guy on Tinder this time, and we were chatting away, good-looking man. So he had a unicorn emoji in his bio and I honest to god did not think anything of it whatsoever. I thought maybe he just likes unicorns or is completely random one of the two. So he then proceeds to ask me, “did you see the unicorn in my bio?“, I’m like, “Yes, why?”. He then asks, “do you know what that means?”, being dumb I was literally like, “that you like unicorns?“, he was like, “no no no“. He then goes on to tell me that he and his girlfriend are looking for a third, and they wanted to know if I ever considered doing that. That honestly is not my thing, and I have nothing against people that are into those sort of things, but it’s just not for me. So now I know what a unicorn is and stay far away from people who have those in their bio. Honest to god, I felt like the biggest idiot, and I am pretty sure I am the only one who did not know about that kind of thing, I was so confused.

The next one is a classic, literally the classic “he stood me up stories“. Yes, yes I have been stood up twice, and it is not the nicest most lovely feeling in the world, to say the least. I have made plans with people, they knew my address and completely never showed, so you get those lovely bunch of people as well, which is amazing…not. I just do the simple block and delete, like why give them a second chance, f*** that crap, I don’t have time for that.  Assholes. Some guy literally asked me to be his valentine , like buddy, how you going to be my valentine if you can’t show up for a first date?! Keep dreaming .

The best one is when you go on a date with someone who looks absolutely nothing like their picture, that is super fun. It really sucks trying to hide your disappointment when you meet them in their car, it’s so hard I can not even emphasize it enough! Like, please, update your pictures, or at least look a bit like them and not surprise the hell out of someone when you meet them. That blows.

I can not forget about the instant dick pics, those are quite lovely as well. Literally asking a guy how his day is going then BAM, ” here’s my dick”, like alright , cool. I didn’t ask for that nor do I really care. Can we just have a normal conversation, k thanks, you can put Princess Sophia away now.

I can honestly say finding your husband on these sites is almost near to impossible but I congratulate the couples who did find each other on these sites, you found rare beautiful people! I can clearly say I have been on a shit ton of dates, and a lot have been kinda crappy but some have been pretty good. I think this is such a learning experience being on these sites, and I don’t think it’s a bad thing to go on lots of dates, hell you are single AF you do what you want to do. I am single AF I am going to do what I want to do and that is that. But these sites I find are full of the most random people I have ever met, and sometimes I do get a good laugh from them.  So three things to take away from this blog post today:

  1. you are a bad ass b**** and deserve the best.
  2. thank you to the individuals who were apart of these wonderful stories
  3. I am sorry you got stuck with a blogger who loves to blog about everything… surprise!

I hope you beauts enjoyed this more amusing blog post that I came up with from my personal dating stories on these two glorious sites. Be sure to subscribe to my channel if you have not already and follow my other social media sites located on my main page! Take care and much love xo.


My Collaboration with “11ElevenClothingCo”!

Good morning my beauts, I hope you all are having a wonderful weekend so far and are enjoying it! I have been still trying to get over my sickness and just take it easy this weekend aside from a few drinks and a party on Friday.… Hey…. I mean, it is the weekend right?! What kind of things have you beauts gotten yourself up to? I have been just blogging away and what not, doing my thing and getting in my zone! I have missed blogging a crap ton and forgot what it felt like to be just chilling infront of my computer and just typing away, letting my thoughts run freely and just letting them fly on the page. I love expressing myself on here and this is like my own personal diary, I love how open I can be with you beauts, and just say whatever is on my mind, it is refreshing and I absolutely love it. I have recently worked with a beautiful company that I came across on Instagram called, “11ElevenClothing Co”.  I absolutely loved their page, it was very neutral but completely caught my attention right away. I fell in love with the clothing line and the pieces that were involved in it.  Also what caught my attention from their page was the bio description of the clothing brand. The bio states, “You are the creator of your own story. Live life with positive vibes, intention & purpose“. I absolutely love this, I think that is a beautiful saying and admire it a lot. I really do think others besides myself, would be extremely attracted to this description. I was super excited when Amanda reached back out to me and was down to do a collaboration with me on a blog post to review some of her products and model them.  Amanda was such a sweetheart and was such a beautiful person to speak to. When I launch my clothing line one day, I want to be as friendly and down to earth when speaking to customers, I admire her personality a lot! I received my package in the mail and was so thrilled to see what she had sent me. Again, you guys know me with my personalized cards, sometimes I even get more excited reading it than the products! I just love how personal they are and they truly make you feel good when reading them! I absolutely loved the card it was so beautiful! I will insert a picture of it for you beauts to see for yourself!

While reading the card, it was so thoughtful and cute, thanks Amanda! It was a very positive card and you can tell Amanda is all about spreading those positive vibes as well! Which is what I adore. I was then greeted by two beautiful shirts which I adore a ton. The material on the shirts is amazing, they are both super comfy and I would wear them anywhere whether it be my outfit of the day or even to the gym!  The first shirt that I am going to show for you beauts is called the “Wonder & Wander Women’s Scoop Muscle Tank” which retails for $24.95. I absolutely love this shirt, and it is super comfy!

I really do love this shirt, I think it is absolutely adorable. I also really love the second shirt that I received in the mail which is called the “Nomad Women’s Flowy Racerback Tank“, which retails for $24.95 as well. I really love the material of this shirt as well, it’s super cute and fashionable.

I want to take the time to personally thank Amanda for allowing me to collaborate with her and her company on this blog post. I had an absolute blast typing this post up and modelling the shirts. I absolutely love my two shirts and wear them all the time everywhere I go. Be sure to come spread some love on her Instagram page over at “@11elevenclothingco“. Also be sure to use my discount code for 10% off your entire purchase, simply use “good vibes” over at the checkout! Make sure you are following my other social media accounts for upcoming blogs in the near future! Take care and much love xo.